O.K. i know parents are a touchy subject with us all but honestly we need them. i mean thanks to them we are living and reading this blog! how many of you think you could honestly live and support your current lifestyle with out the help of your parents? I know that i couldnt. in fact if it werent for them i wouldnt be writing this on my new laptop, have a house to live in or food to eat. I know this for sure at one point or another we will fight with our parents- thats not bad but we need to realize that they really do have our best intsrest in hand. I know from first hand experience that they really do but rules and regulations down to help us not make the same mistakes they made at our age. so what does God say about parents. this simple statement: honor thy mother and father. with in reason obsislously if they want you to break the law dont. but with in legal limits you have to... if they say you cant go see this concert then obey that and dont go do it. if you do do what they have said no to then take your consequences like a women or man and deal with it! I know i know obeying ur parents is harder than just doing it but i will give you some advice and this is how to solve problems with anyone parents inclued PRAY for them. your relationship will soon change. I have had my fair share of arguments and fights with my parents but if i prayed for them and started to see things from thier point of view and i know understand how bratty and downright abusive i was sometimes. and one other piece of advice it will get better the older you get. you might even try these:
- do something for them
- do something like our chores without begin asked
-compliment them
-take them out to dinner
- cook for them
- pray for them
try these and i know with in time things will get better. and as always if your parents are in any way abusive GET OUT OF THE HOUSE, RELATIONSHIP and REPORT it to the police or trusted adult
love ya all
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